Leiden · singles 30–50 · a night out
TRUST ME,DATE MYFRIEND.
Your friends get three minutes and a few slides to pitch you on stage. Their deck becomes your profile. Likes are private. Only mutual likes get revealed.
How a night goes
- 01
Your friends pitch you
Pick your single friend, get their yes, make a deck. A few slides, three minutes, on stage.
- 02
The room likes, privately
The last slide shows a code. Type it on your phone, tap “interested”. Nobody sees it. Not even the person.
- 03
The countdown
Likes stay open for about 30 minutes after the last pitch. Decide with your friends. Eurovision energy.
- 04
The reveal
On your phone only. Mutual? You’ll see who. Not this time? You’re in the network now, and it remembers.
- 05
Then it’s just a bar night
No forced mixing. Hang out with your crew. Anyone can walk up and say hi, the old-fashioned way.
The one rule
Only people who’ve been pitched on stage can match.
No online sign-up for profiles. No swiping strangers. The network grows by the 10–20 people pitched each night, and every one of them came with friends who vouched for them.
Like anyone pitched tonight. You’ll also see people in the room who were pitched at earlier nights and liked you, and can like them back.
You’re in the network. Come back, like tonight’s candidates, and you show up to the ones you liked.
Like away. Your likes wait quietly and switch on the night your friends pitch you.
You’re never alone up there.
Candidates come with their crew and stay with them all night. If someone’s pushy, you just go back to your friends.
Nothing about matching is public. No announced matches, no scores on screen. If nobody liked you, that stays between you and your friends.
Next night
SOON
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Pitch your friend
Know a great single friend aged 30–50? Ask them first, then apply for a slot. We’ll send the deck guidelines once you’re in.